Because of the level of high insecurity and cheating in relationships, many people find it very hard to engage into any long term commitment.
Having a faithful partner whom you can vouch for during or when caught in any unexpected situation is mind appealing to those in a relationship .
Testing your partner faithfulness is cool but in some ways if he or she fails the test, the level of trust in the relationship will definitely depreciate.
Before testing your partner, make sure that if you are found in that situation you won't fail.
Don't just try to test someone's loyalty, if you aren't loyal either.
It is way beyond cute photos, videos and romantic love SMS.
Anyone who's into any committed relationship is expected to be loyal and faithful till the end.
Testing your partner's loyalty isn't a bad idea but going beyond your limits won't do you any good either.
Some people choose to use people who are financial stable to test their partner.
While some choose to use material stuffs like money, cars or houses to test their partner.
There are Disadvantages and Advantages of testing your partner's loyalty...
You don't test a mouse with cheese, it will definitely fall for it. Nobody's perfect, we all trying to make perfection.
To clear your doubts, the best action to take in testing their loyalty is using minor situations to see their actions.
It is very essential to know the person you're dating or in a relationship with, either way he or she won't ditch you when things aren't going well.
Before you agree to marry someone make sure he or she is faithful
The human mind is actually crowded with so many thoughts and it won't be a right timing to take out loyalty test when your partner is facing some kind of challenges.
If your relationship is new, I will highly advise you not to try testing your partner whether he or she is loyal or not.
The best approach is to lay down what you don't want in a relationship and if he or she is smart enough, they will see reasons to make a change.
You can't force anybody to change just because they love you.! If your partner loves you, they will change that bad habits that they know you won't like.
If your partner is a s3x addict, you should never try to use your friend or a random stranger to test their level of faithfulness.
Sometimes when you test the level of your partner's loyalty and he or she passes it, inwardly you might still have some amount of doubts and want to push on to see if they will fall for your bait.
Don't push your limits to the extent that, they can't go again, trust me you will rather end up hurting yourself if you eventually find out you were doing yourself more harm than good..
<<Let me share a story with you>>
Around 2012, a younger lady who was in her final year in the University, wanted to know how faithful her partner was to her.
on an occasion, she sent her female roommate to dress seductively to her boyfriend's house.
The loyalty test was supposed to last for a Month, so this lady travel out of town during those period and sent her friend to keep her boyfriend company to see if he will cheat on her.
Lo and behold three weeks into the game the lady who traveled out of town got a wedding invitation from her friend who was supposed to test her boyfriend's loyalty.
The lady cried non-stop and decided to take the matter to a higher authority. When the guy was asked what happened and why he proposed to his girlfriend's roommate.
He's reply was " my girlfriend never had enough time to spend with me, she was always busy and never thought of coming to stay with me not even up to a week.
When I saw her roommate in my lodge, I was swept off my feet, she even made mention of coming to keep me company.
So instead of being accused of cheating on my girlfriend, I decided to propose to her roommate.
You might have good intentions for wanting to test your partner's loyalty, but if you do more than necessary trust me it won't have a happy ending..
I hope you found this helpful.
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